proxy_pass http://my.host.com/; - remove last slash.
I dont see override settings in nginx configuration.
Do you have this on domino?

Next, 1.0.5 is so old. One more, proxy_redirect off; - set this if you dont want to be proxy for all
My example:
in nginx.conf - client_max_body_size 0;
in vhost:
location / {
proxy_pass http://traveler;
### Set headers ####
proxy_set_header Accept-Encoding "";
proxy_set_header Host $host;
proxy_set_header X-Real-IP $remote_addr;
proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-For $proxy_add_x_forwarded_for;
### Most PHP, Python, Rails, Java App can use this header ###
#proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-Proto https;##
#This is better##
proxy_set_header X-Forwarded-Proto $scheme;
add_header Front-End-Https on;
## By default we don't want to redirect it ####
proxy_redirect off; - Disable proxy for all!
proxy_connect_timeout 120;
proxy_send_timeout 120;
proxy_read_timeout 180;
proxy_set_header "User-Agent" $ua; - This is for outlook
}
P.S. If you want use outlook you need setting some tricks. Of course this is not official support) But some clients want outlook.